reminds me of a quote in a book i read once.. the hero mildly annoys a priest, but really saves the guy's bacon in the process. he apologizes for the annoyance part, and the priest says, "I absolve you, my son. In fact, I abolve you for the whole weekend. Have a good time, it's on the house." now if i could only remember the title or author.. (the up side of dementia is that you see new sights every day.. and in all the same places)